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	<title>Comments on: Real English conversations: Do men prefer real or fake?</title>
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		<title>By: Giuliana</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-48064</link>
		<dc:creator>Giuliana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 15:52:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori.  :smile: 
What I consider  useful is the transcript and not so much the vocabulary. I say so because in the vocabulary part the words that someone may not know are the adjectives. In my case, i just needed to know 7 words and I am studying intermediate english. Something else is that in each word of the vocabulary the explanation is too long. Maybe, you can just write the words that may cause problem with the understanding.  :wink:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori.  <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
What I consider  useful is the transcript and not so much the vocabulary. I say so because in the vocabulary part the words that someone may not know are the adjectives. In my case, i just needed to know 7 words and I am studying intermediate english. Something else is that in each word of the vocabulary the explanation is too long. Maybe, you can just write the words that may cause problem with the understanding.  <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=':wink:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Argenis</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-14907</link>
		<dc:creator>Argenis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2007 18:40:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori.
i find very useful, the english conversations  in this web site, and it is vey usefull too the transcrip and vocabulary list, i understand it is time comsuming but it is excellent too,  thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori.<br />
i find very useful, the english conversations  in this web site, and it is vey usefull too the transcrip and vocabulary list, i understand it is time comsuming but it is excellent too,  thank you</p>
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		<title>By: alicekper</title>
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		<dc:creator>alicekper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 02:23:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i use transcript very often too. it&#039;s very useful and Vocabulary notes helps me a lot. your explanation are the best, really really thanks a million. I like this website.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i use transcript very often too. it&#8217;s very useful and Vocabulary notes helps me a lot. your explanation are the best, really really thanks a million. I like this website.</p>
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		<title>By: Osman Mrzljak</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-582</link>
		<dc:creator>Osman Mrzljak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 13:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,</p>
<p>I have just found  your podcast, and I very like it. I use transcript very often. Vocabulary notes are needed (for my level), but nit so extended. Some phrases like â€śas far as X goesâ€?, I would never find it elsewhere. For other words I use very useful plugin for Mozile Browser â€śDictionary Tooltipâ€?. I just click on word (I want to now meaning for) and tooltip is displayed with information from  different dictionaries like Thesaurus. This all for no cost and totally free from advertisement.</p>
<p>See Mozila Browser at <a href="http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/" rel="nofollow">http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/</a> and dictionary tooltip add-in at<br />
<a href="https://addons.mozilla.org/firefox/1171/" rel="nofollow">https://addons.mozilla.org/firefox/1171/</a> </p>
<p>This will reduce your work in vocabulary section for about 70 %.</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-314</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 22:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Vanessa and Francesco,

Thanks for your kind words! I&#039;m glad you&#039;re enjoying the podcasts and the notes. I&#039;ll keep doing them. Sorry for not posting this weekend (normally I post new episodes on the weekend), but I&#039;ve been ill again. Will try to get a new episode uploaded tomorrow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Vanessa and Francesco,</p>
<p>Thanks for your kind words! I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re enjoying the podcasts and the notes. I&#8217;ll keep doing them. Sorry for not posting this weekend (normally I post new episodes on the weekend), but I&#8217;ve been ill again. Will try to get a new episode uploaded tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa, Spain</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa, Spain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Dec 2006 23:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,
i&#039;ve discovered your podcast this week, and it is very useful for me. When I go to the university i&#039;ll listen to it and I learn a lot with you. Actually at home I look to the transcript and to the vocabulary to read some English and make sure i&#039;ve understood everything. My English vocabulary is kind &quot;poor&quot;... that&#039;s why i like your notes. 

Thanks for your time!
Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,<br />
i&#8217;ve discovered your podcast this week, and it is very useful for me. When I go to the university i&#8217;ll listen to it and I learn a lot with you. Actually at home I look to the transcript and to the vocabulary to read some English and make sure i&#8217;ve understood everything. My English vocabulary is kind &#8220;poor&#8221;&#8230; that&#8217;s why i like your notes. </p>
<p>Thanks for your time!<br />
Vanessa</p>
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		<title>By: Francesco</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-281</link>
		<dc:creator>Francesco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2006 12:04:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,

I think your podcast is very useful, especcially the vacbulary at the end...I find there all the explanations to my doubts, so continue like this

Bye</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,</p>
<p>I think your podcast is very useful, especcially the vacbulary at the end&#8230;I find there all the explanations to my doubts, so continue like this</p>
<p>Bye</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-278</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2006 13:31:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pietro - thanks! I&#039;m glad you&#039;re finding the vocab useful. One of the hardest parts for me is picking the words to explain. The transcripts are also quite time consuming (mainly because spoken English is not &quot;clean,&quot; and because speakers tend to talk over each other). But at least the transcripts let people listen and read along, and show them what words they&#039;d need to look up. Anyway, I&#039;m not going to decide what to do today; I just wanted to get a feel for how the listeners feel. Thanks for your input!

Pablo, thanks for the nice comments and suggestions. There actually is a donations page set up here: http.//www.betteratenglish.com/support-better-at-english/ 

If every subscriber donated 10 dollars per YEAR, I could afford to quit my normal job and do B @ E full time. That would mean daily podcasts Monday through Friday with vocab, transcripts and even extra exercises and goodies. Gotta dream a dream...;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pietro &#8211; thanks! I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re finding the vocab useful. One of the hardest parts for me is picking the words to explain. The transcripts are also quite time consuming (mainly because spoken English is not &#8220;clean,&#8221; and because speakers tend to talk over each other). But at least the transcripts let people listen and read along, and show them what words they&#8217;d need to look up. Anyway, I&#8217;m not going to decide what to do today; I just wanted to get a feel for how the listeners feel. Thanks for your input!</p>
<p>Pablo, thanks for the nice comments and suggestions. There actually is a donations page set up here: http.//www.betteratenglish.com/support-better-at-english/ </p>
<p>If every subscriber donated 10 dollars per YEAR, I could afford to quit my normal job and do B @ E full time. That would mean daily podcasts Monday through Friday with vocab, transcripts and even extra exercises and goodies. Gotta dream a dream&#8230;;-)</p>
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		<title>By: Pablo</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-277</link>
		<dc:creator>Pablo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2006 12:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,

What about begin accepting donations or creating a membership ?  

I&#039;m sure that a lot of people that really likes your podcast would donate.

Paypal could be a good option:  http://www.paypal.com.

Note: I love your podcasts !! :)

Bye
Pablo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,</p>
<p>What about begin accepting donations or creating a membership ?  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure that a lot of people that really likes your podcast would donate.</p>
<p>Paypal could be a good option:  <a href="http://www.paypal.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.paypal.com</a>.</p>
<p>Note: I love your podcasts !! <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Bye<br />
Pablo</p>
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		<title>By: Pietro</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-276</link>
		<dc:creator>Pietro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Nov 2006 01:01:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,
I&#039;ve just discovered your podcast, and I love it. 

I don&#039;t need the transcript, but the vocabulary notes are precious. Without your notes I wouldn&#039;t have understood some expressions like &quot;they&#039;re few and far between&quot;, or &quot;chisel-jawed&quot;.

thanks, and keep up the good work!

cheers,
Pietro</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,<br />
I&#8217;ve just discovered your podcast, and I love it. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t need the transcript, but the vocabulary notes are precious. Without your notes I wouldn&#8217;t have understood some expressions like &#8220;they&#8217;re few and far between&#8221;, or &#8220;chisel-jawed&#8221;.</p>
<p>thanks, and keep up the good work!</p>
<p>cheers,<br />
Pietro</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-273</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2006 08:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Shiang,
Thanks for taking the time to comment &#8212; I really appreciate it. A few people have emailed me saying that they don&#039;t need the vocab, but so far, the overwhelming majority (based on the poll) need the vocabulary lists. I&#039;ve also had some emails from people who are practically begging me to keep the vocab lists, so I think the overall verdict is that the majority of B @ E listeners like the vocab. But regardless, I&#039;m looking for ways to find time to get more casts posted per week; I&#039;m still not operating at anywhere near maximum efficiency... ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Shiang,<br />
Thanks for taking the time to comment &mdash; I really appreciate it. A few people have emailed me saying that they don&#8217;t need the vocab, but so far, the overwhelming majority (based on the poll) need the vocabulary lists. I&#8217;ve also had some emails from people who are practically begging me to keep the vocab lists, so I think the overall verdict is that the majority of B @ E listeners like the vocab. But regardless, I&#8217;m looking for ways to find time to get more casts posted per week; I&#8217;m still not operating at anywhere near maximum efficiency&#8230; <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Shiang</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-271</link>
		<dc:creator>Shiang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2006 01:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Lori:
This is the first time that I listened your show on the air.
I am appreciate your effort and kindly heart.
I can understand that making a transcript is a consuming time work for you.
Based on my situation, you may omit vocabulary list in the following transcripts.
I am really hope it may make you feel easy.
Thanks for your effort again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Lori:<br />
This is the first time that I listened your show on the air.<br />
I am appreciate your effort and kindly heart.<br />
I can understand that making a transcript is a consuming time work for you.<br />
Based on my situation, you may omit vocabulary list in the following transcripts.<br />
I am really hope it may make you feel easy.<br />
Thanks for your effort again!</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-265</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Nov 2006 17:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gustavo, no problem. I was pretty sure it was a language issue, which is why I wanted to point it out to you. 

Thanks Lin, that would be some useful linkage indeed -- thanks for the tip. If I ever come across a good source, I will definitely post it.

For the record, anyone who lives in a country where cinemas and TV use subtitles (like here in Sweden) rather than dubbing (like Indonesia) is really lucky, because that&#039;s a great way to get &quot;free&quot; exposure to a vast range of foreign languages (including different regional dialects of English).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gustavo, no problem. I was pretty sure it was a language issue, which is why I wanted to point it out to you. </p>
<p>Thanks Lin, that would be some useful linkage indeed &#8212; thanks for the tip. If I ever come across a good source, I will definitely post it.</p>
<p>For the record, anyone who lives in a country where cinemas and TV use subtitles (like here in Sweden) rather than dubbing (like Indonesia) is really lucky, because that&#8217;s a great way to get &#8220;free&#8221; exposure to a vast range of foreign languages (including different regional dialects of English).</p>
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		<title>By: Lin</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-264</link>
		<dc:creator>Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Nov 2006 17:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you should probably distinguish between different English accents. I&#039;m from the Northeast of the US so my accent sounds significantly different from yours. I think you should post a link somewhere distinguishing different possible accents that could possibly confuse people.

Keep up the good work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you should probably distinguish between different English accents. I&#8217;m from the Northeast of the US so my accent sounds significantly different from yours. I think you should post a link somewhere distinguishing different possible accents that could possibly confuse people.</p>
<p>Keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>By: Gustavo</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-252</link>
		<dc:creator>Gustavo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 15:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your understanding, Lori. If I&#039;m not being polite it is due to my lack of English language skills. I&#039;ll try to be more careful next time.

Let&#039;s see if I&#039;m getting on...

I see that you got my view (though badly expressed) and I&#039;m glad you plan to improve the site! I perfectly understand that it&#039;s free so you don&#039;t have any obligation. Sure you know we all thank you for your time. If not, let me say thanks again.

As far as I&#039;m concerned, the content (listening, transcripts and vocabulary) is absolutely fantastic. Only, perhaps, scant (ups, I know, I know, I&#039;m being rude again. Just trying to practice new words...) Knowing that you are in the way of restruturing the site and recording new content, I&#039;m more than satisfying.

Concerning topics, I&#039;ll think on something, I promise :)

And, of course, keep it free, please!

Regards,
Gustavo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your understanding, Lori. If I&#8217;m not being polite it is due to my lack of English language skills. I&#8217;ll try to be more careful next time.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s see if I&#8217;m getting on&#8230;</p>
<p>I see that you got my view (though badly expressed) and I&#8217;m glad you plan to improve the site! I perfectly understand that it&#8217;s free so you don&#8217;t have any obligation. Sure you know we all thank you for your time. If not, let me say thanks again.</p>
<p>As far as I&#8217;m concerned, the content (listening, transcripts and vocabulary) is absolutely fantastic. Only, perhaps, scant (ups, I know, I know, I&#8217;m being rude again. Just trying to practice new words&#8230;) Knowing that you are in the way of restruturing the site and recording new content, I&#8217;m more than satisfying.</p>
<p>Concerning topics, I&#8217;ll think on something, I promise <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And, of course, keep it free, please!</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Gustavo</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-251</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 13:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gustavo: Thanks for the feedback. I realize the site is far from being as clean as it could be. I&#039;ve been building it up as I go along; once I find a good structure and format I will launch a clean new site design to reflect that. Additionally, please remember that this is a FREE site that I do in my spare time. (Language point: &quot;It&#039;s a mess&quot; sounds pretty harsh.) Constructive criticism usually flies a bit better if you word in in a, well, constructive way.

A poll about topics is a good idea, if rather difficult to do as a multiple choice survey. But everyone can feel free to suggest topics in comments or email. If it&#039;s one we find interesting and do-able, we&#039;ll do it.

Matteo: Thanks for your comments! Glad you&#039;re finding the show useful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gustavo: Thanks for the feedback. I realize the site is far from being as clean as it could be. I&#8217;ve been building it up as I go along; once I find a good structure and format I will launch a clean new site design to reflect that. Additionally, please remember that this is a FREE site that I do in my spare time. (Language point: &#8220;It&#8217;s a mess&#8221; sounds pretty harsh.) Constructive criticism usually flies a bit better if you word in in a, well, constructive way.</p>
<p>A poll about topics is a good idea, if rather difficult to do as a multiple choice survey. But everyone can feel free to suggest topics in comments or email. If it&#8217;s one we find interesting and do-able, we&#8217;ll do it.</p>
<p>Matteo: Thanks for your comments! Glad you&#8217;re finding the show useful.</p>
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		<title>By: Matteo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matteo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 13:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Lori,

Healthy, red-blooded man
Theyâ€™re few and far between
The love interest
Chisel-jawed

These are some of the vocabulary items I wouldn&#039;t get without your help.

The way the show is now is, of course, perfect. But I can understand it&#039;s really time consuming.

If I had to give up something, I&#039;d rather give up the Transcript rather than the Vocabulary List.

Matteo, Italy</description>
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<p>Healthy, red-blooded man<br />
Theyâ€™re few and far between<br />
The love interest<br />
Chisel-jawed</p>
<p>These are some of the vocabulary items I wouldn&#8217;t get without your help.</p>
<p>The way the show is now is, of course, perfect. But I can understand it&#8217;s really time consuming.</p>
<p>If I had to give up something, I&#8217;d rather give up the Transcript rather than the Vocabulary List.</p>
<p>Matteo, Italy</p>
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		<title>By: Gustavo</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-249</link>
		<dc:creator>Gustavo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 12:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,

I&#039;ve just discovered your web site and podcast content. I&#039;ve been listening to this conversation and the one about Rock, Paper, Scissors.

First of all, I want to say I&#039;ve really enjoyed these listenings. I&#039;m going to keep on listening to you whatever you upload in your web site, for sure. Please, keep it interesting! ;)

But I&#039;d like to say something not so pleasant too. Sorry. It&#039;s about your web site structure. In my personal opinion, it&#039;s a mess! I&#039;m not able to find contents out easily.

Anyway, I&#039;d like to thank you for your time and interesting listenings. What about a poll on topics? It could keep audience attention, don&#039;t you think?

Regards,
Gustavo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori,</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve just discovered your web site and podcast content. I&#8217;ve been listening to this conversation and the one about Rock, Paper, Scissors.</p>
<p>First of all, I want to say I&#8217;ve really enjoyed these listenings. I&#8217;m going to keep on listening to you whatever you upload in your web site, for sure. Please, keep it interesting! <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But I&#8217;d like to say something not so pleasant too. Sorry. It&#8217;s about your web site structure. In my personal opinion, it&#8217;s a mess! I&#8217;m not able to find contents out easily.</p>
<p>Anyway, I&#8217;d like to thank you for your time and interesting listenings. What about a poll on topics? It could keep audience attention, don&#8217;t you think?</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Gustavo</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-246</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 09:50:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kristof: There are no &quot;supposed to&#039;s&quot; here (intentional apostrophe): comment on whatever you like as long as it&#039;s not troll or a flame (not a risk with you, methinks). Part of my goal here is to post conversations containing topics that are at least somewhat interesting to talk about (unlike the painfully boring stuff in the ELT books that the mainstream educational belief-system forces me to teach from). I just hope nobody thinks that the few minutes&#039; worth of conversation I post here provides an exhaustive view of how Michael and I (or any guest conversationalists) feel about anything (it soooooo doesn&#039;t). Part of having conversations with people is that it helps you get your head around your own ideas. Ask me how I feel about something tomorrow and I might give you a completely different answer than the one I&#039;d give today. I do agree, though, that villains can be heart-heartrendingly attractive (as evidenced by some of my questionable choices in past partners) :-p

Juanmi: Thanks for the tip. Unfortunately, www.m-w.com is becoming a turn-off to me because of the annoying popups (good example of breaking your brand and alienating customers who LOVE you just to make a quick buck). And for the record, I&#039;ve bought the last two CD editions of their collegiate dictionary/thesaurus, so I am a real fan. Two other reasons I&#039;m not into linking to definitions: 1) most people (me included) are &lt;a href=&quot;http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2006/10/lazy_people_in_.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;lazy and in a hurry&lt;/a&gt; - they won&#039;t want to spend time clicking, 2) adding tons of hyperlinks is also quite time consuming, 3) linking to other sites makes you dependent on them and puts you at risk of landing in 404 hell. OK, that was three reasons....

Pascale: Judging from the email I get, B @ E readers range from advanced beginners to near-native speakers. So I try to keep that in mind when doing the vocab lists. Then again, I also run into the problem of &quot;If they can understand the explanation, they can probably understand the target vocab anyway.&quot; This is something I notice with many other ELT podcasts - the explanation section seems more difficult to understand (from an L2 perspective) than the target vocabulary itself. Point taken, though, thanks.

Massimilano: Thanks! As long as this site enjoyable, I&#039;ll keep on doing it. Getting nice feedback is part of what keeps this enjoyable. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristof: There are no &#8220;supposed to&#8217;s&#8221; here (intentional apostrophe): comment on whatever you like as long as it&#8217;s not troll or a flame (not a risk with you, methinks). Part of my goal here is to post conversations containing topics that are at least somewhat interesting to talk about (unlike the painfully boring stuff in the ELT books that the mainstream educational belief-system forces me to teach from). I just hope nobody thinks that the few minutes&#8217; worth of conversation I post here provides an exhaustive view of how Michael and I (or any guest conversationalists) feel about anything (it soooooo doesn&#8217;t). Part of having conversations with people is that it helps you get your head around your own ideas. Ask me how I feel about something tomorrow and I might give you a completely different answer than the one I&#8217;d give today. I do agree, though, that villains can be heart-heartrendingly attractive (as evidenced by some of my questionable choices in past partners) :-p</p>
<p>Juanmi: Thanks for the tip. Unfortunately, <a href="http://www.m-w.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.m-w.com</a> is becoming a turn-off to me because of the annoying popups (good example of breaking your brand and alienating customers who LOVE you just to make a quick buck). And for the record, I&#8217;ve bought the last two CD editions of their collegiate dictionary/thesaurus, so I am a real fan. Two other reasons I&#8217;m not into linking to definitions: 1) most people (me included) are <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2006/10/lazy_people_in_.html" rel="nofollow" rel="nofollow">lazy and in a hurry</a> &#8211; they won&#8217;t want to spend time clicking, 2) adding tons of hyperlinks is also quite time consuming, 3) linking to other sites makes you dependent on them and puts you at risk of landing in 404 hell. OK, that was three reasons&#8230;.</p>
<p>Pascale: Judging from the email I get, B @ E readers range from advanced beginners to near-native speakers. So I try to keep that in mind when doing the vocab lists. Then again, I also run into the problem of &#8220;If they can understand the explanation, they can probably understand the target vocab anyway.&#8221; This is something I notice with many other ELT podcasts &#8211; the explanation section seems more difficult to understand (from an L2 perspective) than the target vocabulary itself. Point taken, though, thanks.</p>
<p>Massimilano: Thanks! As long as this site enjoyable, I&#8217;ll keep on doing it. Getting nice feedback is part of what keeps this enjoyable. <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Massimiliano</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-245</link>
		<dc:creator>Massimiliano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 08:10:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori, I don&#039;t want to go through the matter of this issue....but I&#039;d like to say that you&#039;re making a great work. Your podcasts are very useful because they help me to improve my knowledge of advanced vocabulary.
Thanks a lot!
Ciao.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori, I don&#8217;t want to go through the matter of this issue&#8230;.but I&#8217;d like to say that you&#8217;re making a great work. Your podcasts are very useful because they help me to improve my knowledge of advanced vocabulary.<br />
Thanks a lot!<br />
Ciao.</p>
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		<title>By: Pascale</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-244</link>
		<dc:creator>Pascale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 07:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori, 

i have just had a look at the vocabulary. Maybe shouldn&#039;t you go into so much detail: &quot;to have to = must&quot; , this is one of the basics when you learn English, this would save a little bit of your time.
The rest is perfectly fine: topics, length...
Thanks 
Pascale</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori, </p>
<p>i have just had a look at the vocabulary. Maybe shouldn&#8217;t you go into so much detail: &#8220;to have to = must&#8221; , this is one of the basics when you learn English, this would save a little bit of your time.<br />
The rest is perfectly fine: topics, length&#8230;<br />
Thanks<br />
Pascale</p>
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		<title>By: Juan</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-243</link>
		<dc:creator>Juan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 03:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Got no time so I&#039;ll make it fast:

I really don&#039;t need the vocabulary list at the bototm, so how about this: you could link all the highlighted vocabulary words to M&amp;W Dictionary. So you could check the words individually if you have any doubt. ;-)

Juan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Got no time so I&#8217;ll make it fast:</p>
<p>I really don&#8217;t need the vocabulary list at the bototm, so how about this: you could link all the highlighted vocabulary words to M&amp;W Dictionary. So you could check the words individually if you have any doubt. <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Juan</p>
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		<title>By: Kristof</title>
		<link>http://www.betteratenglish.com/real-english-conversations-do-men-prefer-real-or-fake/comment-page-1/#comment-242</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristof</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2006 21:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First off, before you think I&#039;m stalking you :) or something, I *swear* I haven&#039;t been to this page in ... at least a few days. But today&#039;s Friday and I just finished a number of promo-pictures and called up my RSS reader and guess whose site got highlighted?

Anyway, I&#039;m not sure if we&#039;re supposed to discuss the content of the lesson or the lesson itself, but I take it you&#039;ll correct me if I&#039;m not supposed to discuss content.

I think fake breasts are ... ugly. Not in a &quot;I got breast cancer and now have a breast prothesis&quot;-way but in a &quot;I couldn&#039;t live with myself so I got a new pair&quot;-way. 

As to the point of stereotypes: that&#039;s why they&#039;re stereotypes. Woody Allen tries to break with all the stereotypes and, frankly, the majority of people haven&#039;t seen a Woody Allen movie. If they&#039;ve seen one, they most probably fell asleep after five minutes. I mean, Woody&#039;s not exactly Mister Hunk. He&#039;s not even Mister Average. He&#039;s ... the Dork from the Basement. And the girls that play in his movies, on average, aren&#039;t Miss Universe Material either. Of course, I watch Woody&#039;s movies from an intellectuel and cultural perspective. I&#039;m never as excited to go watch a Woody movie (boy, does that ever sound wrong) as I&#039;m excited about watching Kate Beckinsdale jump from a building and give the next vampire a thorough beating.
And there&#039;s also a number of &quot;eternal bad guys&quot; who are cool and rugged-looking as well. Even though I can never remember their names, their faces are etched in my memory forever.

As to the vocabulary thing, I would like to elaborate on that a bit. I&#039;m not an avid reader of the vocabulary. I&#039;ve had 6 years of English at school so the vocabulary isn&#039;t particularly useful to me. However, I really like the fact that a number of words have been highlighted in the transcript so I know I should pay special attention to these. I&#039;m not even halfway near perfect, so I try to pick up as much pointers as possible.

Thanks for another very interesting period.

And for what it&#039;s worth: you&#039;re 100% allright! Hugs are on me, tonight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First off, before you think I&#8217;m stalking you <img src='http://www.betteratenglish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  or something, I *swear* I haven&#8217;t been to this page in &#8230; at least a few days. But today&#8217;s Friday and I just finished a number of promo-pictures and called up my RSS reader and guess whose site got highlighted?</p>
<p>Anyway, I&#8217;m not sure if we&#8217;re supposed to discuss the content of the lesson or the lesson itself, but I take it you&#8217;ll correct me if I&#8217;m not supposed to discuss content.</p>
<p>I think fake breasts are &#8230; ugly. Not in a &#8220;I got breast cancer and now have a breast prothesis&#8221;-way but in a &#8220;I couldn&#8217;t live with myself so I got a new pair&#8221;-way. </p>
<p>As to the point of stereotypes: that&#8217;s why they&#8217;re stereotypes. Woody Allen tries to break with all the stereotypes and, frankly, the majority of people haven&#8217;t seen a Woody Allen movie. If they&#8217;ve seen one, they most probably fell asleep after five minutes. I mean, Woody&#8217;s not exactly Mister Hunk. He&#8217;s not even Mister Average. He&#8217;s &#8230; the Dork from the Basement. And the girls that play in his movies, on average, aren&#8217;t Miss Universe Material either. Of course, I watch Woody&#8217;s movies from an intellectuel and cultural perspective. I&#8217;m never as excited to go watch a Woody movie (boy, does that ever sound wrong) as I&#8217;m excited about watching Kate Beckinsdale jump from a building and give the next vampire a thorough beating.<br />
And there&#8217;s also a number of &#8220;eternal bad guys&#8221; who are cool and rugged-looking as well. Even though I can never remember their names, their faces are etched in my memory forever.</p>
<p>As to the vocabulary thing, I would like to elaborate on that a bit. I&#8217;m not an avid reader of the vocabulary. I&#8217;ve had 6 years of English at school so the vocabulary isn&#8217;t particularly useful to me. However, I really like the fact that a number of words have been highlighted in the transcript so I know I should pay special attention to these. I&#8217;m not even halfway near perfect, so I try to pick up as much pointers as possible.</p>
<p>Thanks for another very interesting period.</p>
<p>And for what it&#8217;s worth: you&#8217;re 100% allright! Hugs are on me, tonight.</p>
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