In this Real English Conversations podcast, you’ll hear Lori and her mom talking about their bedtime routines and what they do to get good night’s sleep. The conversation includes lots of American English idioms and phrases related to going to bed, sleeping, waking up, and daily routines. Make sure to download the PDF for the vocabulary notes, which focus on multi-word verbs (phrasal verbs) and idioms. Challenge yourself to learn at least one new idiom or phrasal verb!
Before you start listening, it’s a good idea to warm up and prepare your brain for vocabulary related to the topic. You can do this by thinking about the following questions:
- How many verbs (action words) can you think of related to sleep?
- How would you describe your daily routines for going to bed and getting up?
- How well do you sleep?
- What helps you sleep well, or makes you sleep worse?
- Do you use electronic devices (phones, tablets, computers, TV’s) right before bed, or maybe even IN bed? How do you think this affects your sleep quality?
- What advice would you give a friend who wanted to sleep better?
Now you are ready to listen. As you listen, try to notice new or interesting language items. Noticing new language is super important for you learning progress. It makes sense — before you can learn and use new language, you have to notice it! As you read and/or listen, look for words, phrases or grammatical patterns that interest you. Make a note of them. Test yourself later to see how much you can remember. Making flashcards or using a spaced repetition program like Anki can help you learn new items faster.
The next step is to try to use the new language items. Good luck!
In this episode, a Real English Conversation on the topic of sleep and sleep habits. It features tons of vocabulary, especially idioms and phrasal verbs — as you all know and love them. So come on – let’s get going!
Hello, hello, how ya doin’? Wherever you are, I hope you’re having an awesome day. I am happy you’re here, and I can tell you that my day is extra awesome already because I have a new Real English conversation for you.
Yes, in the conversation you’ll hear me and my mom – who is a very good sport I must say — she had no idea I was recording because I didn’t tell her until after we were finished. But she didn’t mind at all, which is lucky for me. It’s a bit sneaky, I know, but it’s the best way to get you the most authentic conversational English possible for your listening and learning pleasure.
Anyway, our conversation features a ton of vocabulary related to sleep, sleep habits, and daily routines. Oh, and there’s lots of idioms and phrasal verbs too – several listeners have emailed to say they need extra help with idioms and phrasal verbs, so I’ve highlighted those in the transcript and vocabulary notes that you can download to go with this episode. If you want to read along as you listen, or if you want to dive a bit deeper into the vocabulary, you can get the transcript and vocabulary notes at www.betteratenglish.com/003 .
So are you ready for the conversation? Here we go!
Mom: …Saturday morning they had to drive to Santa Barbara, and Sunday they had to drive home and today he has to fly back, so it’s been a…they’re exhausted.
Lori: Yeah, not a very restful weekend, running around.
Mom: I know, I stayed here, you know, stayed with Bella [the family dog]. They got home around four o’clock yesterday afternoon so that was nice and early. And then so Michelle and I were just visiting and, you know, talking, and we went downstairs and Aidan, Dave and Jackson were all in Michelle’s bed… Michelle and Dave’s bed, purportedly watching TV, but the only one with his eyes open was Aidan. Jackson and Dave were both quote “watching TV” unquote with their eyes shut. It was pretty funny.
Lori: I’ve actually had that happen before at parties and things, you know, when I was younger and used to do the whole partying thing, when you’d be a small group of people and everyone’s sitting up late talking and you’d get so sleepy, but you’re really just not ready to say, “Okay. I’m going to go sleep now,” or, “I’m going to leave,” and you sit there and you’re dozing off but still kind of enjoying listening to people.
Mom: Right, right.
Lori: It can be like that watching TV too.
Mom: Well I’ve even done that, I will think I’m watching TV and then I’ll suddenly realize my eyes have been closed for the last ten minutes.
Mom: I’ll think, “I don’t think I’m getting too much out of this, I might as well turn it off and go to bed.”
Lori: You know, I’ve been thinking about sleep a lot lately because I’ve been really trying to get better sleep – and it’s working – but what I’ve noticed is I’m falling asleep a lot faster, which is good, but I’m not really… it’s like I don’t have this in-between period where I feel like, “Oh yeah, I’m sleepy, I’m falling asleep now.” It’s like I’m aware that I’m lying in bed and I’m relaxed and getting a little sleepy and then the next thing I know I’m waking up and it’s two in the morning and I have to wee.
Lori: Does that happen to you too?
Mom: Yeah, I usually wake up earlier because I’m usually – especially I think my natural circadian rhythm is to go to bed early and wake up early because I know when I’m home in Utah by myself I slowly skew earlier and earlier and earlier until sometimes I’m like going to bed at eight o’clock.
Lori: Oh my gosh, we are totally – I am totally a fruit from your tree.
Mom: Yeah. I mean it just happens naturally and then I’m waking up earlier and going to bed earlier. When I was younger I naturally skewed the other way, I would stay up later and later and later and want to sleep in later and later, but as I’ve gotten older it’s totally gone the other way, it’s really bizarre.
Lori: It’s funny because I think I was the same way too when I was younger, I would eventually turn the day around, you know, I would be going to bed at five or six in the morning and then getting up at two or three.
And now it’s funny. If I don’t observe good sleep hygiene – because I have a whole ritual now that I do at night because I really – the sleeping was a real problem for me, so yeah, but if I don’t do that and if it’s like ten o’clock at night and I am kind of stuck in working on something and all interested and if I let myself keep going until eleven, then forget it. I will be up, it will take me a couple hours to fall asleep.
Lori: But if I make sure that I turn off the computer, everything is off by ten and I’m in bed say by ten fifteen, ten thirty, like ready to relax and, you know, not doing any more computer glowing rectangle things.
Mom: Right, right.
Lori: Then it works really well. But if I get in that sort of that pattern of working on something interesting late at night and I am left to my own devices I will eventually still turn the day around the other way.
Mom: I’ve done that too. What I’ve –
Lori: And I’ll keep on staying up later.
Mom: Right. And one thing I’ve found that really affects me being able to go to sleep is I cannot eat or drink alcohol like within two or three hours of going to bed.
Lori: That’s interesting.
Mom: Because I don’t know if it’s like digestion or what but sometimes I will even kind of think I am hungry and, “Oh, I’ll just have a snack,” you know, especially that late glass of wine and I only drink one glass of wine, at the most a glass and a half, I can never get through that second glass. But if I do it right before I go to bed, I don’t know, it just… I don’t go to sleep. So I’ve learned not, you know, if I’m going to have dinner and a glass of wine it’s got to be at least two, preferably three, hours before I go to bed.
Lori: It’s funny you mention the wine because I have not been… I used to have like a small glass of wine, actually, when I’d get in bed. I would read for a little while and drink my little glass of wine, but I haven’t been drinking the wine and I’m going to have to check one day and see if it makes a difference.
Mom: It makes a difference.
Lori: I stopped –
Mom: I mean yeah –
Lori: – doing that around the time I started sleeping better, but I was also doing all these other things so I don’t know which variable might have actually had an effect.
Mom: But yeah, my natural rhythm is to be… get up early and go to bed early.
Lori: Yeah. I think that’s totally… that’s what I’ve been doing as well. Now I’m real.,.. I get really, really, really sleepy at around eight o’clock but then we’re still doing our evening TV thing, so I can’t say, “Okay, going to bed now,” so…and then I kind of get a second wind. But I’ve been waking up somewhere between four thirty and like six thirty every day. Usually between four thirty and five. And I just get up because I wake up and I’m like, “Well, I’m wide awake.”
Mom: I usually wake up around midnight to go to the bathroom because I’ve gone to bed so early. You know, if you’ve gone to bed at eight thirty or nine. And then usually I really – when I first fall asleep – I really sleep soundly, because I’ll wake up and think it’s like three or four o’clock in the morning, and sometimes I’ll look at my watch and it’s like eleven thirty. And everybody else is still up and I have been out like a light.
Mom: So then I’ll get up and go to the bathroom and go back to bed, and then I will usually sleep until around four, then go back to sleep and then just wait for – at home I wait for, you know, my coffee pot goes off automatically. Here [where I am living right now] I have to actually get up and push a little button and go back to bed.
Lori: Oh dear!
Mom: It’s such a trauma. But I survive.
Lori: Can you say “first world problems”?
Mom: Yeah. Ain’t it the truth!
Lori: “Oh my God, I have to push the button on my coffee pot! I have to get up and…”
Mom: Well that’s the thing, you know, if it was right here where I could reach it and just go take my arm out and go, “Bonk,” but no, I have to get out of bed, walk ten feet and push a button and then get all the way back into bed.
Lori: Oh, how do you manage? How do you put up with that?
OK, that’s all for this episode, thanks so much for listening. If the conversation was challenging for you, I highly suggest you get the transcript and vocabulary notes to support your listening.
You can find it at betteratenglish.com/003
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